Volunteer Spotlight - Johna Stoneking
Volunteer Spotlight - Johna Stoneking
Johna Stoneking is a native of the shores of North Carolina. She traveled the country with her family until her father’s final station at Camp La June (Marines). Johna married her high school sweetheart, Michael, also from a Marine family, and shortly after the nuptials, Michael joined the military. Fast forward, from North Carolina, to Italy and a few places between and after, the Stonekings landed in Hampton Roads. Married for 35 years, Johna and Michael have 2 children and 4 cats. Since 2012, as a CASA volunteer, Johna has served 2 family groups and a total of 6 children.
Why CASA?
I had a rough childhood and probably needed a CASA of my own. When I read about the volunteer opportunity a few years ago, I knew it was something that I wanted to do.
Most Rewarding Moment as a CASA:
There have been a bunch of those [rewarding moments]. On my most recent case, which has since closed, I served as a CASA to a teen mom and her baby. As we left court after the last hearing, she invited me to the first birthday party for the baby, and she has recently called to let me know she got a job promotion. When I first was assigned to the case, she didn't want to deal with me, but because I was the only person she saw on a regular basis, she learned to trust me. That moment was worth it.
Any Regrets During Your Work As A CASA?
Not so much of a regret, but with my first case, I felt like a gag order had been placed on me. [The case involved more than 99 counts of child pornography and has been federally tried, therefore there were elements of the case that the juvenile court could not handle until the federal case had been tried.] It seemed that the “system” was trying to keep all aspects of the case separate. The 2 older kids (older teens) had lots of questions that went unanswered for quite a while, which impeded our relationship. In spite of that, I still did what I was assigned to do, advocate for these children until a safe permanent home was determined.
Hobbies?
Photography. I love to take photos of “pretty things” or things I can make pretty in a photo. I am an avid reader but these days, I am lucky to get through a page without falling asleep! I love to cook and go on bike rides. And being a child of the 70’s, I am a true Rock and Roller. You gotta love guitar rock!
Employment?
After my children were grown and out of the house, I went back to school and got my Bachelors Degree in Criminal Justice and Social Work (double major). After 6 years of applying for jobs in my field (still volunteering and serving my community) I was recently employed by Armed Forces Service Corporation (Formerly Fleet and Family Services) as a Family Advocacy Program Victim Advocate. I serve service members (military) and their dependents with domestic violence issues. It's like being a CASA volunteer, paid, with resources and personal assistance that I can provide to the victims from housing, to safety plans, to skills training.
Advice For A Newbie CASA Volunteer?
Have PATIENCE… With the kids and the professionals on the case. Even if it seems like the kid doesn't want anything to do with you, they will come around and realize that you are there for their benefit. If things aren’t working, bring a board game. It works every time. Then the floodgates open and you learn all you want to know and more. As far as patience with the professionals (social workers, therapists, GALs)... you will use it, but keep in mind the staff is here to assist.







